Trying something New! :)

Trying something new for 2012!

I thought it would be fun to try something new for 2012~ I will continue my
blog....but really update it and not get bored with it! I will have some family
things on it and also some very honest things on it from me! I will really be honest with who I am and how I feel! I will use it as a tool for me and maybe help people understand who I am.

Before I start I should say.....I am adding a WARNING LABEL...... the things you are about to read are strickly the opinion of the writer and in no way.....are meant to offend, disrespect or heaven forbid....I hurt someones feelings. I am a straight shooter and that can be taken the wrong way sometimes. I encourage all opinions and advice. If easily offended please stop reading! Thank You! :)

Ok~ with that out of the way....lets begin!

My first topic.....can be a little touchy.....only because I can be Prejudice against my own kind at times and it really bothers me. I am not sure why? I have spent many years wondering... is it my problem? Can I do something different? And still have not yet come up with any answers!
The Topic my friends is... Women.....the creature of mystery and beauty! The mystifying thing that has baffled men for so long.....and left grown men crying and returning for more! :) I can only speak for myself when I say.....I have no answers!

I wish I could say that Women were like men! Wow~ the world would be a easy place.....And let me tell you why!

1.Men say what they mean and mean what they say. WHAT? ~ how could that be??

Women on the other hand....Say what they don't mean and expect you to know exactly what they mean.....Now~ WHAT? Passive Aggressive is what this is called! Now I can't say all women are like this.....there are a few out there...Me, my Mom and I am sure... a handful more that are straight shooters and say exactly what they mean.....and to Men... we are wonderful...to Women....we are hated! Now I have many close relationships with women.....but what I have noticed....that it is with people that are straight forward and tell it how it is! I would never tell anyone to be the way I am......like I said at the beginning of this.....WARNING LABEL....... I am just stating the obvious!


2. Men are honest with their opinion...

I realized at a young age I could not ask a girlfriend.... Does this look cute on me or does my hair look wierd? Because I would always get the same answer....You always look cute!......NO NO! I am looking for an honest opinion....not what you think I want to hear. I want you to say....I like it better when you do your hair like that or I really like that black dress on you! Women are afraid to be honest with our opinions...because we don't want to hurt feelings or sound rude. But lets be honest.......I will always ask my husband or the only women I truly trust in this world and that is my Mom for the truth or some random Dude walking down the street for his opinion....because I can tell you guys are not afraid! I remember running my first 1/2 marathon 13.2 miles and having to take a picture after the race....I looked at a girl that finished in front of me and asked her do I look alright? And she said "You look great!" I took a finishing picture then went into the restroom...only to look in the mirror in HORROR>> I am not going to be so vain as to say.....I was going to look like a fashion model after running that far.....but I had make-up running down the side of my face and a leaf stuck in my hair......thanks random marathon girl...SHEESH!

3. Last but not least....Men don't judge each other like women do! ~

I have a friend(female) that will remain nameless....that can meet another female and know within 10 seconds if she can be friends with the other person. What? Ok...I know that it is easy to get caught up into fashion and looks....but 10 seconds? What has happened in this world....that we can't judge each other on kindness, love and giving. Instead on shallow things like looks! I could get into a car accident tomorrow...and be badly burned....and I certianly hope that I am not judged on my looks...but instead for the person I am. A Wife, Mother, Sister and Daughter that loves her family. Also when women don't like each other....it is easy to jump on every little thing that we do wrong....

Did you see what she was wearing?

She said this......

She is that.....

I am Ok~ with all of that.....as long as it is said to me or to the person talked about.....

If all the women of the world banned together and stopped hating on each other.....We would be a powerful force! And like I have said before..... I have many wonderful women in my life and I don't want this to offend anyone.

But I just wish we could be a little bit more like guys......minus-- being stinky, gross, and I do wish (Some Older and Younger)men were taught a few more manners. What happened to opening doors for a lady and saying Thank You and Please. Manners will be discussed on another Blog topic! :)


Thank You for reading my first Blog Topic.....Please comment...Positive or Negative....I can handle it! :)

PS~ I remember reading in a magazine on a topic of getting along with others.... and it has always stuck with me.... Always remember QTIP- that stands for Quit Taking It Personal! And I agree....You may not always agree with someone....but everyone is allowed to have an opinion and it does not need to be about you or even affect you!

PSS~ I will not have my facebook page after the beginning of the year.....so please follow my blog! :)